If we know their stories we can erase time (1928-2106 and beyond…)

David and Beks with Geoffrey at the Science Museum (photo by Naomi Campbell)

All Jesus did that day was tell stories—a long storytelling afternoon. His storytelling fulfilled the prophecy:

I will open my mouth and tell stories;
I will bring out into the open
    things hidden since the world’s first day.

Matthew 13:34-35

This morning I want to share one of those young and old, history and future, yesterday and tomorrow, grace and promise, past and possibility photo combinations.

As I write those words I can’t help but notice how it is not “history verses future” but “history and future”. Community is necessarily inclusive, not oppositional. This is an important semantic distinction, because (look at today’s social/political conflicts) the words that we use become the way we frame our thinking, and the way we are influenced to think pretty much determines the way we act.

This combination of photographs also illustrates the direct connection relationships give us to an amazing span of history. Beks, at eight years old, is the same age my mother was when World War Two started, and Nazi bombs fell around her East London home. When Beks turns 90, the year will be 2103 and she will have direct, first person stories to share from a child who lived in the 1930’s!!!

All of this, however, depends on relationships, and communication, and listening, and inquisitiveness, and – most importantly – deliberation and intent.

Stories do not belong to the world and its collective consciousness until they are told; and even when stories are told they have no power unless someone is listening; and, then, these amazing stories are not gifted to history unless they are repeated.

If you are reading this and you are young, then please seek out people your grandparents’ age and ask them to share their stories. First prepare to ask good questions, then either write or record what you learn.

– with my parents this week

I often hear people say, “I gave my parents… grandparents… great-grandparents one of those directed journals, but they never filled out more than a page or two…” Good grief, people! Those books are supposed to be a conversation! You don’t just leave it with them like homework!!

Okay. Enough said. You know what to do.

In love, and because real love translates into action – DEREK

One comment

  1. Derek what a wonderful story and reminder of some of the things we failed. A good reminder to talk and share with our children and grandchildren.


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